iPhone not showing in iTunes or iPhoto?

Nothing but trouble with this bloody Macbook Pro since buying. Fed up!!

Plug my iPhone in and it charges fine but it doesn't show in iTunes or iPhoto.

I have tried:

1. Different port
2. Different Cable
3. Restart iPhone & Mac
4. Checked Software updates
5. Reset PRAM

Anyone know what could be up? Dont want to have to go in the store again! I seem to live there!